Tension - Week 1

Leader Guide 

As we begin this Core Values series, we’re starting with something Jesus made clear from the beginning: following Him was never meant to be passive. Sometimes faith can slowly become something that we keep to ourselves. We can drift into routines, comfort, or convenience and miss the tension Jesus calls us into as His followers. Jesus called us to believe and then follow. That means growing, transforming, serving others, helping others know Him, and celebrating His faithfulness. This week we will look at what it means to actively live out our mission statement: Introduce our friends to Jesus, learn to follow Him, and celebrate His presence in our lives. 

What you will need: A Bible or your Bible app, a notebook, pen, and highlighter. The verses highlighted below are linked so that you can easily access them during your study time.  

Jump Start  

Leader: This section is designed to get discussions started, examine God’s truth, and apply it to our week. Life Group leaders should not assume everyone in their group is a Christ follower. Because they are taking part in a Life Group, they must have some openness to know more and explore. Pray for the Holy Spirit to work and let Him lead you as well. 

1. What’s something in life that you tried that looked simple, but was actually much harder once you tried to do it consistently?  

2. Read Matthew 28:18-20, Mark 1:17. What connection do you see between Jesus calling the disciples to “follow me” and His command to “go and make disciples”? What stands out to you about the promise Jesus gives in Matthew verse 20? Why do you think following and helping others know Him is not separate?  

Leader: Jesus never intended Christianity to be passive or private. Following Him naturally leads us toward people, not away from them. The mission was never just believe but also to go, teach, and make disciples. This is why we introduce our friends to Jesus. 

3. Read Romans 10:13-15. According to this passage, what must happen before someone can call on and believe in Jesus? What role do ordinary believers play in someone hearing the gospel? What are some reasons Christians drift toward an excuse mindset, instead of an introduce mindset?  

Leader: Many people are searching for hope, truth, and purpose, but someone must be willing to tell them about Jesus. Sharing your story doesn’t require a dramatic testimony; it’s simply pointing people to what God has done in your life. God uses ordinary people and everyday conversations. 

4. Read Luke 9:23; John 8:31-32. Why do you think Jesus connects discipleship with surrender, obedience, and abiding in His Word? What are some distractions or habits that can make faith become passive or routine instead of intentional? 

Leader: Growing spiritually is different from simply getting older. Growth requires intentionality. Jesus calls us to daily surrender and obedience, choosing Him again and again in our everyday lives. That’s why learning to follow Him is so important. 

5. Read Psalm 126:3; Philippians 4:4Why is celebration an important part of spiritual maturity? What happens to our faith when we stop recognizing and celebrating what God has done? 

Leader: Celebrating God’s presence in our lives reminds us that God is still moving. When we celebrate salvations, baptisms, freedom, restored relationships, and God’s faithfulness, it keeps our hearts engaged and helps us remember that following Jesus is about relationship, not routine. 

Action Step: This week, take one intentional step in actively following Jesus. Here are some examples of Introducing, Learning, and Following: 

• Spending dedicated time with God each day   

• Work on your testimony and then share it with someone  

• Demonstrating Jesus’ example through kindness, encouragement, service, or forgiveness  

• Inviting someone to church or Life Group  

• Taking time to thank God and celebrate a specific way He has been faithful 

Optional - Deeper Dive: Read Acts 4:13; 17:6. What made early believers so impactful? Why do you think ordinary people who genuinely follow Jesus often make the biggest difference in the lives of others? How can spiritual comfort keep the church from making an impact?