Leader Guide
As we chase after the “American Dream,” it’s easy—almost natural—to drift into pursuing comfort, success, and status more than more than we pursue God Himself. None of those things are wrong in and of themselves. In fact, living in America brings incredible blessings, opportunities, and freedoms that we can truly thank God for. But blessings can quietly become idols when they take primary place in our hearts. If you have ever been on a mission trip, you’ve probably noticed that believers who have far less than we do often carry far more joy, peace, and contentment in the Lord. Why? Because their treasure is rooted in God alone. So how do we, in a culture filled with abundance, keep our focus on the “main thing”, God’s purpose, God’s kingdom, and God’s calling for our lives?
What you will need: A Bible or your Bible app, a notebook, pen, and highlighter. The verses highlighted below are linked so that you can easily access them during your study time.
Jump Start
Leader: This section is designed to get discussions started, examine God’s truth, and apply it to our week. Life Group leaders should not assume everyone in their group is a Christ follower. Because they are taking part in a Life Group, they must have some openness to know more and explore. Pray for the Holy Spirit to work and let Him lead you as well.
1. What did you always think you wanted to be when you were growing up?
2. Read Luke 12:16-21. What repeated phrase does the man use that reveals his priorities? In what way do we see this mindset in our culture today? What does it mean to be “rich toward God”? What warning does this parable give about self-reliance or self-security?
Leader: Ambition itself is not wrong. Hard work, planning, and stewardship are godly things. The issue is when accumulation replaces devotion and when our plans never include God. Jesus’ warning here is about a life with success—but empty of purpose.
3. Read Act 8:17-23. What was the issue with Simon's request? How can our own motives sometimes drift off course? In verse 21, Peter says Simon’s “heart is not right before God.” What are some signs that someone’s heart is drifting from God’s purposes?
Leader: Simon wanted spiritual power without spiritual surrender. He treated God’s gifts like commodities rather than holy graces. This is a reminder that even spiritual “success” can become an idol when our hearts are out of alignment.
4. Read Matthew 6:19-24, Colossians 3:1-4. What competes most for your attention or affection? What does it look like to “set your mind on things above”? Why does Jesus say we can’t serve two masters? What does this reveal about the nature of loyalty and devotion?
Leader: Jesus reminds us that our hearts follow our treasure—and we choose daily where that treasure is stored. Paul tells us to “set our minds on things above,” which is an action, not a feeling.
Action Step: Ask God this week to show you, what area may have drifted toward the American Dream more than His dream for us. What Kingdom work are you putting in my path today and where do I need to slow down so I can see it?
Deeper Dive (Optional): Read 1 Timothy 6:6-10; 17-19. What does Paul say leads to “great gain”? How do these verses redefine success from God’s perspective?