Leader Guide
This week's message focused on the question, "How do I know what God wants me to do?" We explored the anxiety many people feel about making the “right” decisions in life. While scripture clearly outlines many of God’s commands, there are also gray areas- places where the Bible doesn't give a direct answer. Together, let’s discover biblical wisdom and spiritual clarity for navigating those uncertain moments with faith and confidence.
What you will need:
A Bible or Bible app
A notebook
A pen
A highlighter
(Scripture references below are linked for easy access)
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Leaders: This section is designed to spark discussion, explore God’s truth, and apply it to daily life. Keep in mind that not everyone in your group may be a Christ follower. Their participation shows openness, so pray for the Holy Spirit’s guidance as you lead.
1. Are you more of an over thinker or over-doer? Share a time when you struggled to know what God wanted you to do. What eventually helped you take a step forward?
2. Read Psalms 16:11, Psalms 130:5. Do you find it difficult to wait for things—or even for someone to finish their story? How does our culture’s demand for instant results challenge your ability to wait on God? What are some practical ways you can grow in spiritual discernment, become a better listener, and trust God’s timing?
Leaders: Spiritual clarity doesn't come overnight—it develops through consistent pursuit of God’s presence, especially in prayer and time in His Word. The goal is not perfection but learning to prioritize and honoring God in every season and decision.
3. Read 1 Samuel 3:7-9. What are some ways to grow closer to people we know well? How might those same principles apply to building a relationship with God and learning to recognize His voice?
Leaders: God primarily speaks to us through Scripture. As with any relationship, time and intentionality are key. Encourage your group to make space to hear from God through the Bible and prayer.
4. Read Proverbs 3:5-6. How often do you slow down and intentionally seek God before making decisions? What might be holding you back from trusting Him fully in these moments?
Leaders: This is a chance to share ways your group might seek God and areas they may be struggling.
5. Read 1 Corinthians 10:31, Romans 8:28. How can these verses reshape our mindset when we’re uncertain about a decision? What does it look like to honor God even when the path isn’t 100% clear?
Leaders: The focus should shift from “Did I get it right?” to “Am I honoring God?” In the gray areas, it’s less about achieving perfect clarity and more about walking with God and honoring Him in all we do.
Action Steps: Commit to setting aside regular quiet time to hear from God. Before making decisions, big or small, learn to stop and pray first. Remember, God works all things for the good, for those that love Him.