Discussion Guide
At The Cove Church: We Stay United and We Keep It Real. Before Jesus went to the cross, He prayed that His followers would experience the same kind of unity that exists between the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. That kind of love and unity isn't something we create on our own, it's something God grows in us as we choose humility, forgiveness, honesty, and grace. As we love one another well, we become a powerful witness to the world of who Jesus is.
What you will need: A Bible or your Bible app, a notebook, pen, and highlighter. The verses highlighted below are linked so that you can easily access them during your study time.
Jump Start
1. If you could permanently end one silly debate/division in the world, what would it be? (Examples: Is a hot dog a sandwich? Pineapple on pizza? Toilet paper over or under?)
2. Read John 17:20-24. Who is Jesus praying for in these verses? What makes the unity Jesus describes different from simply getting along or agreeing on everything? What is the purpose of that kind of unity? What does this passage teach about God’s love for us?
3. Read 1 Corinthians 13:4-7; 1 Peter 4:8-9. What attitudes and actions in these passages help protect unity? Which of these commands seem especially important in a culture that is often quick to criticize, take offense, or create division?
4. Read Acts 2:43-46. How did the early church demonstrate unity in practical ways? What attitudes and actions made their community different? Which of these examples could we intentionally practice today?
Action Step: Jesus prayed for our unity before He went to the cross. This week, ask God to help you reflect His love in your relationships. Each day, read 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 and choose one characteristic of love to focus on. When frustration, conflict, or offense arises, pause and ask, “Will my response build unity?” Choose words and actions that encourage, forgive, and point others to Christ.
Optional - Deeper Dive: Read Acts 15:36-41; 2 Timothy 4:11. What does this account teach us about the difference between disagreement and division? How does Paul’s later relationship with Mark demonstrate the kind of love, grace, and unity that Jesus prayed for in John 17?