YOU DON’T HAVE TO WIN
Carey Madding
Today's Scripture: “Jesus said to them, ‘Render to Caesar the things that are Caesar's, and to God the things that are God's.’ And they marveled at him.” Mark 12:17, ESV
Theme: When we get caught up in debating or trying to conquer our opponents, remember God doesn’t ask us to win the culture war.
MY FAVORITE WORDS
It’s true; my favorite words are “You were right.” You’d think I want sweet love words from my spouse or family, but my pride likes to be fed... a lot. Can I tell you that if you think you know the truth, if you feel that you are right, it is hard to stay silent? I am learning, though. Every opinion does not need to be shared. Even every truth does not have to be uttered. In fact, Jesus warned us about this. “Do not give dogs what is holy, and do not throw your pearls before pigs, lest they trample them underfoot and turn to attack you” (Matthew 7:6, ESV). There may be a time to share, but make sure it is a teachable moment and given to someone who wants to understand.
JESUS, THE WISDOM OF GOD
The Apostle Paul describes Jesus this way: “Christ the power of God and the wisdom of God” (1 Corinthians 1:24b, ESV). If Jesus, knowing that Caesar’s empire would fail in a matter of years, and knowing that His Kingdom would be eternal, did not bother to bicker with the Pharisees and some of the Herodians, why should we? He knew it was a trap and would lead to useless debates and nasty rumors. Isn’t that the same result we often find when we wade in?
AVOID THE TRAP
During the election cycle, avoid the temptation to debate. When you read an offensive Facebook post, don’t start or participate in an argument in the thread. Be diplomatic. Be loving. As Jesus warned and instructed, “Behold, I am sending you out as sheep in the midst of wolves, so be wise as serpents and innocent as doves” (Matthew 10:16, ESV). I can now shrug my shoulders and walk away from debates. I have also learned not to defend myself. When I do try to justify myself, my emotions start running high, and I get angry trying to refute unjust comments. Instead of trying to prove yourself, allow God to both defend you and justify you.
Make It Personal: God is not asking us to “win.” He has already won the final victory, and it will be obvious to all mankind at the end of time. He has tasked us with being good, humble, submissive, and peace-loving. In this way, others will see your good deeds and glorify God because of you. I especially like that our good conduct will “silence the ignorance of foolish people.” Read the passage from Peter’s letter below and put it into practice.
Pray: Lord God, You know my innermost being, my thoughts, and my desires. You gave me a mind and told me to use it. You also warned about arguing and debating, especially with those not wanting to listen or learn. Help me to keep my own counsel when I’m tempted to argue needlessly and trust that You will give me the words and the boldness when You ask me to speak up for You. Spirit, guide me and give me a second to think before I open my mouth. Forgive my pride and arrogance. In You alone, Jesus, is found the wisdom of God. Draw me close and teach me Your ways. In Your Name I pray. Amen.
Read: Proverbs 29:9, Isaiah 53:7, 1 Peter 2:9-25
Weekly Memory Verse: “I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep.” John 10:11, ESV