When in Romans - Week 5

Leader Guide 

How are you doing with the Romans' journey? God’s word is alive and active and has the power to transform us. Don’t give up, it’s worth the effort. This week our focus was on Romans 12-14. Paul provides us with practical guidance for living out our faith-encouraging us to use our gifts for God and others, how we deal with authority, and pursue peace with one another.  

What you will need: A Bible or your Bible app, a notebook, pen, and highlighter. The verses highlighted below are linked so that you can easily access them during your study time.  

Jump Start  

Leaders: This section is designed to get discussions started, examine God’s truth, and apply it to our week. Life Group leaders should not assume everyone in their group is a Christ follower. Because they are taking part in a Life Group, they must have some openness to knowing more, exploring. Pray for the Holy Spirit to work and let Him lead you as well. 

1. Have you had a time where you were arrogant concerning something you did well? What made you become aware of your arrogance or pride?   

2. Read Romans 12:3-13. How do we keep sober judgment about ourselves? Have you discovered your gift or assignment given to you by God? How can you use that for the benefit of others?  

Leaders: While we are each uniquely gifted, we are all part of the same body of Christ. Sober judgement requires humility and understanding of our own strengths and weaknesses.   

3. Read Romans 12:14-19. Have you struggled to keep peace in certain relationships in your life? How can verse 19 comfort you and help you move past the hurt, pain, and frustration in that relationship? Discuss all the ways God calls us to treat others in this passage.  

Leaders: Paul challenges us to respond with grace even in difficult relationships. Verse 19 reminds us God is the ultimate judge and we can release our control over the situation to him. God calls us to treat others with kindness, humility and forgiveness, trusting Him to handle justice in His time. 

4. Read Romans 14:1,13-15,19. Why is it important that we don’t argue over opinions, especially with someone new or weak in faith? In what ways can we be careful to not do things that cause others to stumble?  

Leaders: Paul emphasizes the importance of not allowing personal opinions to create division. Arguing over non-essential matters can harm someone’s spiritual growth and lead to confusion or discouragement. Instead, we are called to act in love and be mindful of how our actions affect others. By prioritizing peace and avoiding behaviors that might cause others to stumble, we help foster unity and encourage a deeper faith in the body of Christ.  

5. Action Step: How will you apply the message this week to your daily life? Pray with your group: We were created to bring honor and glory to God. Help us to have a sober judgement of ourselves, use our gifts for others, and to live peacefully with others as we live out each day.